Players can be male or female, old or young, tall or short, rich or poor. But there is one thing that they will always be and that is dishonest. They lie so much it has become a language to them and they wouldn’;t know the truth if it bit them.
But it’;s not always that easy to spot a player, sadly they can blend in quite well which is what makes them so dangerous.
But there are a few tell tale signs that your man or woman is a player.
They are a charmer.
Charm is a players best weapon, they use it for everything, to snare unsuspecting people, to disarm those that do suspect them and to generally make other people think they are a stand up, decent, well meaning human being.
They never lose their cool.
People lose their temper, it’;s a fact of life. But a player will never be seen to lose their cool.
It’;s all a bit too convenient.
A player will always say they like the same or similar things to you, this establishes a connection. But there is a big difference between having a lot in common and them just telling you what you want to hear (another thing a player will do)
They are a little bit too good with men or women.
People are only good at handling members of the opposite sex for one reason, practise. If your player is good with men or women it’;s because they have had enough of them to know what to do and what to say.
They are manipulative.
Always seem to end up doing what the player wants? Of course you do, because they will manipulate you into doing whatever they want. They have to have control because they have so many balls in the air, one falls down and their whole world comes with it.
You can’;t stay angry with them.
This falls somewhat under the manipulation category, but a player will be incredibly hard to stay angry with and very often you will end up feeling sorry for them. They have perfected this technique over the years and that’;s why they have selected you, because you fall for it.
They surround themselves with the opposite sex.
We have all seen those kinds of men that are constantly surrounded by girls, and those women that “prefer the company of men” They do this to fulfil their need to be adored and told how wonderful/pretty/handsome/intelligent they are.
They always seem to get what they want.
Whether it is a partner, a job, a decision or anything, the player will always get what they want. This is because they will do anything in order to get it.
These signs individually do not mean that someone is a player, but if your person is exhibiting more than three I would say the chances are you have a player on your hands.