Given I’m a Scorpio myself, I’m going to tell you the honest truth. We work, love and play hard. And when it comes to relationships, we’re like no other. If we’re with you for LONGER than 6 months to a year, it’s a pretty good indicator that we’re going to be around for a while. And believe me, we’ll TELL you — AND have the actions to back it up with. But if you’re with a Scorpio for that same length of time and his actions have been less than stellar, I have bad news for you. To be with someone for that amount of time and for him NOT to have made an official commitment to you is a VERY bad sign.
This is about as good as it’s going to get, so you have the choice of either staying or going. If he hasn’t made any attempts to make sure that the two of you are exclusive, there’s DEFINITELY a reason for why he hasn’t. If he’s saying things like he “doesn’t have time,” it’s total bull. I’ll tell you that right now. If your Scorpio guy is feeing you that, he’s basically just telling you anything as not to hurt your feelings. Almost like it’s his “nice” way of telling you that this relationship isn’t working. When we’re in a relationship with another person and we’re completely enamored with them, we want to spend almost ALL our time with them. Even if we’re swamped with work or other activities, we’ll MAKE time. We’re stubborn, so when it comes to something we want, we GET it — one way or another.
When a relationship has reached a stalemate with us, we don’t like to hurt the other person’s feelings right off. Even if we’ve known for MONTHS that the relationship has been headed downhill, it still doesn’t matter. Being so sensitive and emotional ourselves, we care very much about the other people in our lives, and the last thing we want to do is hurt them. Not TOO much, anyway. So we’ll ramble off and excuse or two to try and throw hints at you that it’s not working, like his line about how he “doesn’t have time.” As time goes by and we keep throwing signs your way and you’re still not getting it, then we’ll simply become annoyed and just shut the door on the relationship altogether — and LOCK it, too.