It’s tough to have a lot of time for each other when you are married and have a lot of kids. You will be busy with work and taking care of the kids that you will rarely have time for each other. I’m single and I still don’t have all the time for myself. I can’t seem to find time for myself at all and I don’t know where all the time went. This can be unhealthy for your relationship and you need to learn of new ways to organize your time so you have more time for each other. Organization will help you have more time favor each other. This will keep your relationship healthier. Here are a few tips to help keep you organize.
Have a planner
When you have a planner you will know exactly what you are doing. You can use a regular notebook or you can use your phone to plan it out. You will be able to see the entire months plan and you can see where you can blend in your family life. How can you plan if you don’t know when you’re free. It’s best to always plan ahead.
Work same shifts
When you work on the same shift you can spend the evening together and have fun with your family. You can also schedule a lunch together when you are working close by. You can call each other during your break and also text each other to keep up during the day. If you get your kids phone you can also save e plenty of time this way. You can keep track of them and tell them your plans or help them out over the phone. This will also help you save time when you do go home. You would have everything said already over the phone.
Go out all together
You can go out all together at once to save time, like bringing the kids to dinner with you or your parents together with you or when you are going out with friends. This will save you a lot of time and help put everyone together. It’s a waste of time if you go out with family and then wait the next day to go out with your wife. You can all have dinner together and it will be fun.
Your nights together
You can plan your nights together by putting kids in another room or send them to grandma if you have too. This will be your romantic night together. You can cuddle up to a movie or make a great dinner together. Whatever that you can do at home together will be great, you need more time together nowadays to help your marriage. You can schedule vacation at the same time at your work so you have the time off or you can get the days off that are the same so you can spend time with the other person.