Self Justifications Are Simply Excuses!

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Excuses that you make sometimes appear valid and strong and they can reach the point where they are taken as the absolute truth. However, excuses can make you miss out on good opportunities and they can demolish your life in case you let them. If you talk about yourself in an executing manner with regard to what you intend to do while diminishing your opportunities, you are already in a downward spiral. You will be dwindling abundance and you’re reducing your self regard. At last, you will end up being just a shell of the person you should have been!

Do not give a chance to your excuses to ruin your life. Excuses should be for a weak willed person who has no will for development or self growth. He may have already talked himself out of what he really wants in his life and he will not budge from where he is unless there is a life crisis to push him on. If this is you then you have to begin to learn how to poke some fun at your limits and to begin facing your own fear head on.

If you have the habit of making excuses, you can find yourself saying some of the following words:

You may say that you are not able to do something,

That you do not have the gift…

It is not substantial enough…

You are not young enough…

You do not have the time…

You do not have the income…

You do not have the wits…

You are not adept at it…

It can be difficult…

It is somehow unimaginable that someone could be like you…

Think about all the times when you have used these words. They are just simple and plain excuses. The worst thing is that if you have a valid excuse such as lack of income for going back to college then you will not even try to do something to make your goal a reality. This is because if you do not have the courage, gift, time and income now, it does not mean that you cannot find them sometime in the future.

Here is some good news. If you start rejecting your excuses, they will no longer be real. Start now and take a good look at the excuses you make. Do you think that they are true or are you just duping yourself since they appear to be easier than getting rid of such a fantasy?

If you think deeply about the beliefs that you have hold about your own potential or yourself, you can be surprised to see that you have been a hostage of excuses! However if you are able to define excuses then it will be easier for you to disassemble them. What you need is to take one-step towards alleviating one defective notion. If you are able to execute this in little ways then you have started towards the path of empowerment and strength within yourself. Your whole life will begin to change and switch in a better way. If you lay down your fears and you are able to analyze them using a brave and honest eye, they will no longer be limitations. What you will find is that they are mere excuses but sometimes they can also be unconscious. Excuses come from revilement, events and cruel judgments that you have taken to your heart. Even without scrutinizing them, you let them control your life.

Everyone has his unique self-justifications and there is nobody who is able to supply a complete list. However, always keep in mind that they are only excuses unless it is in extreme and rare conditions.

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