Relationships are about companionship, connection and comfort. Your significant other can feel like they are a part of you through the closeness you have. Suddenly the relationship vanishes. You don’t have their closeness anymore. It feels like a part of you has died. The real possibility you may never be together again sets in.
Time is your enemy in getting her back. Time can weaken that connection you once shared. Despite what she said, right now, she still cares about you and has an emotional connection to you. These things just don’t go away in a day or two. There’s a lot of ways to get your girl back, but there are some basic things that you should follow.
1. Analyze the breakup
Give yourself some time to think about what went wrong. Think about the last significant event that happened. Replace the errors you see with what you should have done in those situations. Run it through to see how it might have played out if that had happened instead. Doing this will help you identify problems and you’ll perhaps even see behavior patterns emerging so you can the right changes.
2. Stopping Making Mistakes That Will Sabotage Getting Back Together
It’s really tempting to immediately call them up telling them you’ll miss them, love them, and try to convince them to take you back. Chasing your ex after a breakup is only more likely to turn them away. So make sure you avoid mistakes like this to increase your chances of getting them back.
3. End The Relationship Dynamic as it Stands
Unfortunately you can’t go back to the way things were. In order to get your girl back YOU need to change. You need to try to change the environment of the relationship into an as loving atmosphere as possible and continue to lead it in that direction to get back with your girl.
Finally, getting back your love with take time and not everyone succeeds at getting them back. It can be done though, but you’ve got to be willing to do the necessary changes and things to make it happen