The joys of the single life! You’re at a club with loud music, lots of beautiful women, but don’t know how to pick up women at the club! Most guys that go to a club struggle to find women for many reasons. One of the main reasons is not enough confidence when approaching a woman.
Below are secrets on how to pick up women in the club with loud music!
1. Ask Her to Dance
One of the first things you need to do when you enter the club is survey your surroundings and point out single women. Single women are usually dancing in a group with their friends and are extremely easy to point out. One of the easiest ways to pick up women and get their phone number in the club is asking them to dance. You need to approach them when a upbeat and popular song is playing in the club. One of the best ways to ask them to dance is just to go up behind them and than just start dancing! They will look over in a second and if you look half way decent, they should continue to dance with you. After a few songs, you need to pull out your cell phone and try to ask her for her number. Most of the time when you pull out your cell phone, you can hand it to her and she will program her number into your phone for you. That is what I always do and I have a 95 success rate using this strategy.
2. Buy Her a Drink
One of the best ways to pick up women in the club when loud music is playing is after you get her phone number. Ask her if you can buy her a drink! Most clubs that you go to there is a bar just about everywhere you turn. Buying a woman a drink is definitely an ice breaker. As she drinks her drink that you bought her you need to strike up a conversation. This conversation can consist of where did you go to school, where are you from, where do you live, what do you like to do, etc…Think of something and go with the flow. When there is drinking involved, it shouldn’t be hard to strike up a conversation.
After you have bought her a drink, ask her if you can possibly take her out for some coffee or another activity at a later date. You already have her phone number so she should say yes. When you are contacting your new woman you met in the club for the first time you should definitely TEXT MESSAGE her the first time instead of calling her. Most women love to get that first text message from you and are eagerly waiting to respond. It is much easier for the guy/girl to text message for the first time to break the ice. I wish you the best of luck in finding your next dream girl in the club and I hope these tips have greatly helped your chances!