While I write this I know there are millions of people watching the movies in discussion. Every second movie is filled with nudity and vulgarism in the name of reality. You will ask what’s the problem? I say the problem is they are creating a yardstick for a lover. They are creating a “standard” of expressing love. They are making an exhibition of human bodies. And those human bodies which, in reality do not resemble to a normal person. But yes leave a desire to become like them. These bodies are not born they are created for creating fat bank balance. There are thousands of super hit movies where a heroine is fully covered! But I guess nudity is the last option for less talented ones. Films portraying love as a union of two physically compatible people are thoughtless and ridiculous. You May feel it Is just an entertainment of 2 hours but I feel drops of water make an ocean. I wonder if you have never come across teenagers or adults going on liquid diet to attract eyeballs. ALL of them want to look like Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. Frankly speaking I wonder if both of them really like being themselves considering the kind of pressure they have to look good.
Being a woman I hate the way women are portrayed in Hollywood. No mater what role a girl is playing she should be a 36_24_36 figure, seduce a man or get seduced, instantly drop her clothes to get him on her .And while they are “love making” the entire focus is her body as if she is going for a medical check up!! And if its love triangle after the entire hanky panky hero realizes that he is in love with somebody else! How the hell do you think films like this affect our youth and society at large? They are creating a monster in every adult, a monster who feels its okay to spend a night with any one only to get up in the morning and say “hey I am sorry I don’t think we are compatible”??!! And the story continues to a 100 others in their life.
I have read about guys and girls who crib and complain about how difficult things have become for them as their partners demand a great body or Hollywood kind of romance This is because some hero says “this a standard way of loving your girl”
So my dear friends it’s not the script but the director who demands it. He demands it because we do. And we demand so that we can see our imaginations come true on the silver screen. We all have unfulfilled wishes and these wishes make us watch these movies where a poor or bad looking or an unlucky guy/girl eventually gets a damsel/hunk. We want to see the lovemaking scenes to fill the gaps in our life. Gaps created out of our own insecurities. We think we will never be loved by a Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie or Tom Cruise or Salma Hayek. This thinking of ours has leaded these showmen to exploit us. Lets watch movies for entertainment and lessons, and by lessons I mean true realizations of the mistakes we commit while dealing with our own loved ones. Remember it makes no sense to see nude bodies attacking each other vulgarly. Let us learn to respect human body. Let us respect Holy Books of all religions that ask us to cover ourselves for modesty and dignity. Let us take vow today that we will not encourage nudity or vulgarity in any form. Let’s send a fan mail to our favorite celebrity to express our liking for them and request them to get noticed only for their work as actors and not as “body exhibitors”
Let us understand that our bodies are meant to be loved by our loved ones and not for showcase for a few million dollars.
PLEASE DO NOT ASSUME THAT THE WRITER IS OLD MAN OR OLD WOMAN.IAM A PART OF TODAYS YOUTH, I FIRMLY BELIEVE IN WHAT I WRITE.I BELIEVE YOU WILL REALIZE THE SAME THINGS ONCE YOU SEE THROUGH MY PERSPECTIVE . PLEASE THINK ABOUT IT.IT WONT COST YOU ANYTHING BUT YOUR BAD HABITS !!!!!!!