One of the saddest circumstances trapped in a relationship that seems to go nowhere. Each party has only one kind of curled up in a dead end of the model. It’s almost like in limbo.
This type of situation is a waste of life. Years go by, where couples are only content. Love is certainly not intended to be this way. Also, does not mean that the spark of love has gone, but it does mean, however, has to be ventilated in burning bright once again. It will not happen unless you recognize the problem and take steps in the right direction.
First, must determine that there are feelings are mutual. Do not want to waste the effort with a partner who has no interest in restoring a relationship. This can not be determined with a heart to heart talk. More often in a relationship that has become complacent, there was no real debate in a very long time. This is a good starting point.
Once you are sure that there are feelings that can be ignited, then you have two steps.
Is to draw attention to himself again. Take a trip down memory lane. What was it that attracted you to your partner you first? Now you may think it’s your good looks, or your important numbers, there is so much more, but these features are only calling cards. They really do not know what triggers that love. If they did, and love is lost because you did not see them, if your partner is not worth having. You must now create a pizazz with what you have now. If you are used to serve dinner in your pants, sweatpants, so why not dress up a little. Start taking measures subtle to make you more sensitive.
The second stage:
Take a hard look at your partner. What was it that they had that you found so appealing. Look deep for this once again, because its still there, you have just lost it. Start focusing on these, and when its close to the time for your partner to come home, think about these and you will pre-set the mood.
These are the starters. If you continually focus on all the old flame starters you will start looking for some that are in the here and now. Before you know you may not only rekindle the old relationship but have one that far supersedes it.