It is a proven fact that a man chooses his destiny and how and what he chooses depends on him and his attitude to life. The world in which we live continuously keeps creating various stimuli to which we react in ways which may be both general and unique. When we talk about positive or negative attitude we mean the tendency of an individual to deal with both positive and negative situation. A positive attitude is necessary to move forward in life, to turn failures into successes, to become somebody from nobody and to remain motivated, happy and contended in life.
Positive attitude is necessary in everything; in personal life, in profession and also while mixing in social groups. People with positive attitude are admired, are capable of solving problems better and are able to spread positive vibes as well. Positive attitude is something that we develop ourselves depending on our own thought processes and how we perceive the reality. Two people may be the victims of a similar traumatic experience but one can move on while the other may not. Positive attitude also is a yardstick of how mature a human being is and with time, experience and willingness one can develop positive attitude as well.
For developing positive attitude one must first have the willpower to imbibe positive attitude, become aware about the ways to develop positive attitude and also have the will power to continue practicing the principles of positive attitude for the rest of his life. Individuals who lack positive attitude usually blame fate and others for their problems in life. Therefore the first step is to change focus and start accepting responsibility for one’s own fate and problems. Only then can one take control of his life and therefore solve his problems. One must give up laziness and become industrious. Many talented and well skilled professionals fail because of laziness and lack of positive attitude. Forgiving and forgetting is an essential step towards positive attitude along with feelings of gratitude for good things, gaining good knowledge, building confidence and self esteem, giving up bad habits and thinking in positive lines.
One must remember that nothing or nobody is perfect but one has the power to learn about own strengths and weaknesses and keep sharpening the strengths while trying to weaken the weaknesses as far as possible.