A lot of singles at one time or the other become anxious about the fact that they are unattached. They worry if they’ll ever get into the right relationship. Their anxiety often leads them to do things they would ordinarily not do. There are a few things you must never do in a bid to find “the one”. You must never come desperate. The more desperate you are, the less your chances of attracting the right person. People can read emotions such as fear, anxiety and desperation and can prey off them. Desperation would make you sell yourself short. You need to have a healthy self esteem and value yourself accordingly. People see you the way you see yourself. When you value yourself highly, there’ll be a confidence about you that’ll make you attractive to people. Remember, you were beautifully and wonderfully made.
You must never pretend to be who you are not. Be yourself and let the other person see the real you. If he/she doesn’t like the real you that doesn’t mean you are any less special, it simply means there is someone better around the corner. When you pretend, you lose yourself and become someone else. You become too eager to please and you’ll be manipulated at will. It’s so much fun being yourself and being appreciated regardless. You cannot pretend forever so better to be yourself from the beginning. You can achieve this by being friends first before you jump into a relationship. This way, you’ll get to know each other well without the pressure of wanting or having to impress.