You will need plenty of time before you can get over your anger. It will last. I’ve been through it and I know that you have to at least give yourself one year to let go of your anger. Usually divorce will accompanied by resentment and anger, and even more so if they cheated on you. Just tell yourself that things will get better over time, you should not rush into rebound relationships where it’s not healthy or engage in activities to get over your anger like drinking or drugs, where it’s not healthy to do so.
When you’re busy, you will not sit around and wonder about your problems. You will be stuck on other things. It could be anything. It could be work, going out with friends, traveling, playing with your pets, go online for dating, or just meeting new people but they should be your focus. You should focus on building a future instead of dwelling on the past. Once you’re active and meeting new people, you should be able to find a good person for you soon.
Move to another city
If being around the same city with your ex bothers you, you can move out to another city where you will never have to deal with them again. Isn’t it great that you can start a new life after all fights? It will be hard if you keep running into them or if you know where they live. You should not let them know where you live. You will be able to forget about them faster this way.
Date other people
Nothing will get you off of your ex than finding new love. You will be able to find happiness. There are plenty of fish out there and as a matter of fact, there is a dating website called plenty of fish and there are plenty of fish on there. You can find other people to date. Once you find happiness, you will never once again go back to your anger.