You should relax so that you’re not stressed out so that your nerves will be ready. When you’re tense, your nerves will tell your body to focus on other things beside making love. You won’t feel like it.
Let go of your work
A lot of people get angry when they get home so they aren’t in the mood. You should let go of your work and just relax. You have to tell yourself that everyone gets stressed out at the jobs sometimes. You will have to deal with work but don’t let it ruin your life.
Nothing will get you or your partner more in the mood if you wear lingerie. When you wear lingerie, you will be turn on and you will feel comfortable. The brain act on what it sees too. For example, if you run water, people will want to urinate. The nerves act on external stimulus so the lingerie is a good stimulus.
Have a glass of wine
You should have a glass of wine to relax. Wine is good for your heart but it can also de-stress you and calms you down so you can get in the mood. How can you make love if you’re alert and stressed out? Wine or a can of beer can knock you out so you’re prepared to get it on.
Turn on something
You can watch something like a music video or a comedy to relax with.