Most families will choose to use table manners that are more widely accepted within their culture. Proper eating habits are an essential social skill that your kid should learn at an early age. It will be most beneficial to you for them to learn while they are young, especially for social dining or family outings at a resturant.
Most of us have experienced our kid’s lack of table etiquette at some point. And would not like to re-live the event if possible; especially if it happened at an important dinner party or at the home of your employer’s senior management.
Why Is It Significant?
You teaching your kid acceptable manners while eating will help them mostly later in life when it really counts. But, for them to learn the right table manners at this point and going forward will help polish their social capability as they grow up.
Presently, you may not think about the advantages of your child knowing what is culturally correct while eating or how it may help them. But, ask yourself . . .
How do you judge if it is vital for your kid to have proper table manners for landing a job during a lunch interview? Or to impress a potential customer while dining? Do you believe it would help your kid’s confidence to feel positive when socially dining or having dinner at a friend’s residence? Good table manners can help your kid with all of the areas talked about and even more. Not to leave out, how it can be of assistance in cultivating their self-confidence and esteem.
Acceptable Table Behavior
There are many behaviors while having a meal or simply something to eat that is considered acceptable or not acceptable. Let us look at some of the more suitable basic table manners that you may want to consider teaching your kid:
* Hands should be washed prior to eating.
* Children at the right age should use silverware during their meals.
* Keep your mouth closed while chewing. No talking with food in your mouth.
* Do not put your elbows on the table while eating.
* Say “excuse me”, if you sneeze, yawn, burp, or cough during mealtime.
* Do not twist and turn, tilt back, or slouch down in your chair. Sit straight up while sitting in your chair during meals.
* Do not play with your toys, utensils, or food while seated at the table. No pointing or waving your utensils.
* Do not reach over serving dishes or another person’s plate for something you want; ask someone to give it to you.
* For older children or when appropriate, excuse yourself from the table to go blow your nose. Do not do it while you are sitting at the table.
* No throwing food or anything else at the table.
There are many behaviors for good table etiquette you can learn to teach your kid, too. It is all based on the situation at hand and what is acceptable for your everyday life and traditions.
What are the traditional table manners for your household? Do you bless your meal before eating it? Would you like for your kid to know the right way to set a common or formal table for dining? Do you want your child to be aware of when they should put a napkin in their lap while at a formal dinner? Do you want your kid to feel comfortable and know what is suitable when removing food from their mouth when reasonable?
Learn to teach your child good table manners and equip them for any situation that may happen presently or upcoming.