After reading dating advice for women blogs and/articles do you ever feel more confident? Do you find yourself always trying to improve details about your personality in order to impress your date? If so, if may come by no surprise that you need to be more confident. Not to worry, I can help with this.
The first thing you must do is evaluate yourself. Look in the mirror and check your posture. Are you slouching or standing straight up? Next look at your attire. Do you feel as though someone would be attracted to you with what you have on, and with the way your hair and make up is done? If you answered ‘no’ to this last question, then this is contributing to your confidence issues. If you don’t ‘feel’ attractive, others won’t view you as attractive either. Next time you go out, be sure to look up when you walk. Also, dress in attire that makes you feel good. Men love women who actually feel as though they are pretty. Even an ugly duckling can fool a good predator. Learn what looks good on you, then use it to your advantage.
Secondly, while on a date, talk about what you find attractive in the other. This is a sneaky way to hear good things about yourself. When men are complimented, they are likely to return the compliment. When dating a man, you are sure to find some things you like and love about him. Think about them. Then, after you share, he will too. What an ego and confidence booster! If you are ambitious about anything this would be a good time to see if he’s been paying attention. But be careful, this goes both ways. A man likes to know that you’re paying too. So if you haven’t learned his passions, now would be a good time to do so.
Another thing that you can do is try to become friends first. This takes away unnecessary pressure that you may be experiencing. If you learn how to see your prospect as a friend first, you will be more comfortable around him. Sure, you want to date him, but if you are too timid to have a conversation on a date; you could ruin your chances. The idea is for you to view him as a friend, but you don’t want him to get the wrong idea about your intensions. This could prevent him from seeing you as anything more than a jogging buddy.
When all else fails, pretend! Pretend to be the most successful person in America. Pretend that you are a famous Victoria’s Secret model and every guy wants a date. Use this demeanor while you’re out and you’ll have men waiting in live just to say high. Dress to impress, then pretend!