When looking for dating advice for women, most women are looking for conversation topics. The fact of the matter is that talking about the weather changes and our nation’s economy is not very stimulating while on a date. Sure, we want to be familiar with our date’s political views, but we’d rather have fun talking about other things.
Conversation topics are very important while on a date. Your partner needs to know that you know how to socialize and stimulate him. Good conversation is what ultimately leads to more dates. If you’re boring and shy, he’s not going to want to spend another Friday night entertaining you.
For starters, be advised that most conversations come from asking and answering questions. Therefore, this means that you must participate in the conversations. Don’t just sit there waiting for your date to stop talking. If you are bored with what he has to say, try asking questions that interest you. However, remember that if you ask the wrong questions, he may vaguely respond, then quickly change the subject. So be sure to be practical with out being too nosey.
If you are unsure of how well the conversation is going, just pay attention to his body language. When he is confident his body relaxes, becomes more open, he may smile, and become more animated. When he is tense or not at ease with himself, he will be sitting back, crossing his legs, maybe his arms, and he will most likely be looking in other areas of the room. Knowing this will allow you to closely determine what the hot topics are.
Here are a few topics to start with:
Where are you from? How long have you been in the area?
What do you do for fun? Are you involved with any sporting teams?
Do you have children? What do you like most about being a parent?
Do you like to travel? Where have you visited?
What do you do for a living? Have you always saw yourself in your current career?
Questions like these are less intruding and may allow for you to get to know your date much easier.