You have met your true love online. Is she for real?
The entire world is desperate to find the real love. As the popular songs sounds, ‘All You Need is Love‘. It is true: to love and to be loved is probably the most important thing in our life. But what to do if you are not sure – is it Love with a capital “L” or just another temporary flirt?
Doubting if the person you are with is the right one for you is a normal thing especially if you have meet that person through online dating sites and you never have meet her face to face.
But there are some things to consider, especially if she is miles away from you that can help you make up your mind if that person is worth to spend your money and time with.
1. For how long do you known her?
If you just met her – forget about that plane ticket for the moment. 🙂
If there are less than 4-6 months since you two have met, your love can be just an illusion. Wait until you know each other better and talk online or on the phone as much as you can to get some trust and comfort in the relationship.
2. What do you talk about?
I am sure that you like to stick to sweet love talk but how she reacts if you are asking her about her family, her friends? Does she gives you details or didn’t want you to know too much about them? You can find out more about her if you know how her friends and family are. You can even talk with her friends online and try to know them this way. But if she don’t tell you too much about people around her, this fact have to make you suspicious about this lady. Is she embarrassed to talk about you in front of her friends or does she have something to hide to you?
3. Do you find her attractive?
Does love depends on sex? IÆm sure you already know the answer. Yes it does. How can be love be complete without the mornings you are waking up in your lover’s arms after a hot passionate night?
So if you talk about HER to YOUR friends all the time and you are already dreaming about her and you didn’t even touched her is a good point, this relationship can have a future, a good one 🙂
4. Do you think, honestly, that she likes you?
You can ask for an outside opinion to your best friend or test her. Yes I know that is unfair but everything is fair in love and war. Doesn’t it? So ask her to do some things for you. But what she can do if she is miles away from you, you’ll ask.