Monday, December 11

Suicidal Condition OF Teenagers

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                The intensity of this problem dictates that individual must understand the alarming conditions of suicide.

                It is very essential that parents and friends exert effort to chitchat graciously on issues surrounding suicide. Once suicidal actions are being observed, one must not hesitate to discuss it with the elders.

                Usually people involved tend to become hesitant in such crucial matter because of the fear teenagers confronted in the said issue.

                Problematic teens must feel that someone is willing to listen to what they feel, and discuss friendly doubts about their world and their social role in the society.

While you are waiting for help to arrive (or if there is no emergency):

  • Listen attentively to everything that the person has to say.Let the person talk as much as he or she wants to. Listen closely so that you can be as supportive as possible, and learn as much as possible about what is causing the suicidal feelings.
  • Comfort the person with words of encouragement.Use common sense to offer words of support. Remember that intense emotional pain can be overwhelming, so be as gentle and caring as possible. There is no script to use in situations like these, because each person and each situation is different. Listen carefully, and offer encouraging words when appropriate.
  • Let the person know that you are deeply concerned.Tell the person that you are concerned, and show them that you are concerned. A suicidal person is highly vulnerable and needs to feel that concern.
  • If the person is at a high risk of suicide, do not leave him or her alone.Do not leave a critically suicidal person alone for even a second. Only after you get professional help for the person can you consider leaving him or her.
  • Talk openly about suicide.

Ask the person, “Are you feeling so bad that you are thinking about suicide?”

If the answer is yes, ask, “Have you thought about how you would do it?”

If the answer is yes, ask, “Do you have what you need to do it?”

If the answer is yes, ask, “Have you thought about when you would do it?”

Here are those four important questions in abbreviated form:

  1. Suicidal?

  2. Method?

  3. Have what you need?

  4. When?

You need to know as much as possible about what is going on in the person’s mind. The more planning that someone has put into a suicide, the greater the risk. If the person has a method and a time in mind, the risk is extremely high and you cannot hesitate to call 911 and ensure that professional treatment is given.

  • If the person talks about using a firearm that he or she owns for suicide, call the police so they may remove the firearm(s). Firearms are used in the majority of suicides, and those who use a firearm usually do not survive. It is thus an emergency that needs to be handled by the police immediately.
  • Don’t be judgmental.Do not invalidate anything that the person says or feels. The person is probably suffering from a chemical imbalance in the brain, and thus could not possibly think clearly. Be supportive and caring, not judgmental, but get help immediately.
  • Be careful of the statements that you make. You do not want to make the person feel any worse than he or she already does. Again, the person is probably suffering from a chemical imbalance in the brain and is thus extremely sensitive.
  • Listen, listen, listen. Be gentle, kind, and understanding.Again, allow the person to talk as much as he or she wants. Always listen very attentively, and encourage him or her to talk more. Be as gentle, kind, and understanding as possible.
  • Let the person express emotion in the way that he or she wants.Allow the person to cry, yell, swear and do what is necessary to release the emotion. However, do not allow the person to become violent or harm himself or herself.

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