I’ve been with my husband for eighteen years and let me tell you, it’s hard work keeping the sparkle in the bedroom. Here are some things that have given our love life a little boost. It worked for us and I know it will work for anyone.
Surprise your man by doing something unexpected. Buy some new lingerie or even just a really sexy outfit. Don’t make a big deal out of it, let him notice it.
Send him a provocative picture of yourself to his cell phone or text him telling him that you’ve been thinking about him. Believe me if you text him a message telling him that you’re horny and thinking about him, he will be stunned and be instantly turned on.
Plan a special date to a romantic restaurant. Wear your sexy new lingerie and give him a little glimpse of it. Tell him you want to take a bath with him or you’ve planned a special massage later. You can find some really nice massage oils out there.
Go to an adult store with your man for fun and look around. Buy something together.You can even buy games for lovers that will bring you closer together.
Get a hotel room for a romantic evening. Surprise him.
Try something new in the bedroom. If you aren’t a fan of oral sex, put your own distaste aside and do something for him. And let him do something for you.
Buy some sexy new high heels or a long necklace. Wear the necklace with a sexy top. He will instantly start thinking about your chest and we all know how men feel about breasts.
Wear his favorite perfume. You can spray it in places that will make him want to get closer.
Write him a sexy note and put it in his lunch or vehicle so that he can find it.
If you are feeling unhappy about your own body image, start exercising or walking. Weight training is also a very good way to burn calories. Not only is exercise great for your self image, it also will help you to live a longer life.
Get yourself a new hairdo or manicure. Make a small change which will boost your self confidence. This will reflect on how you feel about yourself and will radiate to others. The man in your life will notice when you feel great about yourself and will turn him on.
If you want a fun sexual relationship with your mate, you have to work for it sometimes. It’s not always easy but you need to pay attention to it. If you aren’t having sex with your man that much anymore, it will be easier for him to stray to get it somewhere else. Not that all men cheat but they say 60% do. Mostly because they aren’t getting anything at home and someone else gives them the attention they’ve been missing. Women cheat too and those numbers are on the rise as well. And if you check Craig’s list, people actually advertise to “hook up”. Don’t let your relationship fall apart because you’re too busy for sex or tired of it. You need to stay on top of it and you will both be happier in the long run.