GOD IS FORMING AND MAKING A HELP MATE THAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU.
And the LORD GOD said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
PRAY AND SEEK GOD FIRST
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you
Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.
Delight thyself in the Lord; and He shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in Him; and He shall bring it to pass.
GOD HAS THE RIGHT TIME FOR HIS PERFECT CHOICE
Ecclesiastes 3:1, 11a
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.
He has made every thing beautiful in his time.
But let patience have her pefect work, that you may perfect and entire, wanting nothing.
Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that you may wise in your latter end.
Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
WHO YOU SHOULD NOT MARRY
II Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?
Proverbs 5:20, 6:25
And why will you, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger.
Lust not after her beauty in your heart:neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.
A GODLY SPOUSE
Proverbs 31: 20, 26-27
She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth her hands to the needy.
She opens her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
She looks well to the ways of her household, eateth not the bread of idleness.
Proverbs 31: 30
Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.
Blessed is the man that feareth the LORD, that delighteth greatly in his commandments. His seed shall be mighty upon earth.
22But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves23For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: 24For he beholds himself, and goes his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was
25But whosoever looks into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.
26If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man’s religion is vain.
Source: The King James Version of the Bible