Do you want to get your ex back? It’s clear that lot of questions will overwhelm your mind in this mission i.e. Will you get your ex back? What you have to do to bring back healthy relation and so on.
Firstly make yourself clear that it’s impossible to get your ex back if you are unable to identify your mistakes. Avoid previous mistakes that destroyed your relation avoid further mistakes. Mistakes are being emphasized because they can be toxic to your relation, making it difficult for you to get your ex back.
Let us now talk about the most general mistake made by a bundle of people in way of getting their ex back. Many people want their ex back but they ignore a mistake discussed below. These people are unaware that this simple mistake can create lot of troubles.
So what is this mistake? Surely you would be anxious to know.
Keep in mind this tip suits you whether you are a men or a women.
Do not “OVER CONTACT”. Are you familiar with this term?
This common situation will help you understand what over contacting means. Peter is ex friend of Rose now. They ended their relation of many years due to some reasons. Of course Rose wants Peter back as staying away haven’t end their deep feeling for each other. So she contacts Peter with a hope of a refreshed relation once again.
To get her ex back she selects most commonly used method. Guess what? Making “calls”. She picked up her phone and started making calls to Peter and Peter who wanted to avoid Rose ignored the calls very comfortably.
Rose kept on calling Peter continuously. When she got no response she tried another way. She messaged Peter with a hope that he would reply. But Peter was not that kid. He didn’t bother to reply any message of Rose.
Can you identify the mistake made by Rose in this situation? Isn’t it a big mistake?
This is what is called as ‘over contacting’. Keep in mind, a person runs after a thing which she or he is not having. What was Rose telling Peter by continuous calls and messages? Of course she was giving a signal that Peter can get back Rose without many efforts. It’s true that when you get an easy task, you lose interest. Peter got to know by calls that Rose was missing him badly so he got a chance to ignore her. So avoid over contacting. This would help you in getting your ex back.
Now is it clear why are you not getting your ex back? Well you don’t need to be tensed if you have made same mistake. What you have to do is to simply follow the simple principle mentioned above and wait for results. Hopefully you would get out of your relation difficulty soon. Once you get your ex back its good not to repeat the mistakes that you made in past.