It’s strange but there are plenty of people out there who have no social skills. I’ve dated a couple of guys that just have no social skills. It looks like they don’t go out that much and they don’t know how to act when they’re around people. It’s funny but some people just don’t have enough social skills. It’s frustrating to date a man who has no social skills. I’ve dated a man who had no social skills and I wondered if I was dating a rock sometimes. He wasn’t there at all. I felt like giving up on him sometimes but I think that I’ve given up on him. It’s not like I could stick around with that kind of personalities all the time.
I think that these people just need to date more and learn how to behave around women. It’s kind of embarrassing to go on a date with a man who has no social skills. He wouldn’t even buy you a drink and you spend all that time getting ready. I went on a date with a guy and he just sits there. He wouldn’t do anything or say anything. He was so passive; I thought that I was there by myself. It’s rare to run into this kind of guy but if you do, you have to do a lot of work with them. They’re just like babies. They just sit there and don’t know what to say or what to do.
If you ever run into this kind of guy, you just have to ask yourself if there is any love at all. If there is some love, you can try sticking around but it doesn’t mean that he will change either. There are some people who don’t know anything about social skills. They just don’t. They only know a certain things but they just don’t know the rest. You have to teach them how to act around you. You have to do a lot of work sometimes.
You have to call them to make the date, do the planning and end up with the bills even. It’s scary to date these kinds of people, but you have to be patience. If you feel like it’s too much work, you just have to be straightforward with them and if they don’t get it then you need to find someone new. I think people need to learn how to act around women. If they haven’t learn then they’re not ready to date you yet and they need to take the time out to learn. People at a certain age just need to take the time to learn some social skills. If they haven’t learn them then they will need to be without a date.