We, as humans, face many problems throughout our lives. Many of those problems are psychological. We struggle with our feelings and emotions. Certain situations cause those feelings to worsen and may, at times, disrupt our lives.
When you are faced with a new environment, a new school or a new job for example, your surroundings in that place feel odd and also unfriendly. The location and the things you see are unfamiliar to you. The rout that is taken to get to the place is also unfamiliar.
The place itself isn’t the only thing that feels unfriendly to you. You don’t know the people there. They might ignore you or even be unkind to you. Without any familiar faces, you might feel as though you have no one to turn to for comfort or help.
Your new responsibilities may even add to the stress of the situation. The way things are done in this new place may not be what you are used to. You may be expected to have knowledge of things that you don’t know much or anything about.
It takes time for you to adjust to the new situations. It also takes time, sometimes a lot of time, for you to begin to feel comfortable with the people around you. Once you finally adjust to the new place, it is then easier for you to do the work and take on your new responsibilities.
Other problems that you must face may happen in your home. Young people may have trouble getting along with their parents. Sometimes if the mother or father is trying to help the young person, the child or adolescent may feel like the adult is just trying to control them. There are many other things that would prevent someone from getting along with their parents or other family members and this causes problems within the household.
Newly wed couples may have difficulties getting along with their spouse’s family. Parents may not realize that their kids are growing up and they will continue to try to control their kids’ lives. Sibling rivalries are common household problems as well.
You must learn to reconcile and try to get along with your family. You must try to understand their point of view and realize that you love each other and must work through the problems.