If you just can’t help yourself and the urges you have for being with a co-worker are becoming stronger there are a few tips that may work. In office romances the concerns are usually efforts to keep the romance quieting order to avoid gossip and if it doesn’t work out it can cause problems in the workplace costing both of you your jobs. There is a lot to consider when you are dating someone at work. If both people are mature it is ore likely to succeed instead of becoming a hot gossip topic.
- Step 1
If do get into a relationship in the workplace , keep a low profile about your feelings at the office. Whatever is done outside of the office needs to stay outside of the office.
- Step 2
Set boundaries in the beginning so there are not any misunderstandings later. Are you going to share lunch with each other? Are you going to tell anyone?
- Step 3
Find Other Interest
Find other things you two can share as a couple outside of the workplace. This will prevent you from only having conversations about work.
- Step 4
Don’t send each other emails at work because this leaves a paper trail in which the company will find out about your romance. Work e-mails are viewed by the company periodically.
- Step 5
Trust Your Gut
Is your gut telling you that a relationship with him is worth the efforts and chances you will be taking if you choose to date him. The main question is do you trust him?