We all wonder if the guy we just gone on a date with likes us or not and if there is any chance of a future let alone another date. Instead of the typical, here are signs he’s interested, I’m going to let you know about signs that tell he’s just not that into you. It’ll save you a lot of hassle and worrying about what he’s thinking or what’s going on, etc. Often these signs are obliviant to you but everyone else around you can see that it’s not working out…he just doesn’t like you the way you like him. The following should be quite helpful when you begin deciphering what’s going on.
Every woman during her dating years will experience this. So don’t feel like you’re the only one wondering about what’s up with that guy you have an eye on. This situation is just leaving you ever so confused and worked up and worried and its better that you just let it be and move on with life. Like the saying goes, there are many fish in the sea, so throw him back and fish for another. Believe me, you’ll soon find that one who will show you that he cares and wants to have a future with you and it’ll leave you just amazed.
Here are some signs to look for from this person of interest to find if there may be anything worth having with him or should you move on…. Read on to find out if your man of interest has any of the following going on….
The most obvious signs that he’s definitely not interested are that he avoids eye contact, his body is always positioned away from you, he keeps his arms folded tightly over his chest, nor does he encourage any type of conversation with you and he don’t tell you about himself. He keeps a distance between you and him… He doesn’t try to get close.
A huge red flag that this dude isn’t right for you and that you should definitely move on is that he ignores and disrespects you. He does this by putting down your values, thoughts and ideas. It shows that he doesn’t care about you. You’re definitely worth more than that, so don’t put up with him. Don’t think that oh I’ll stick with him because he’ll eventually change. The thing is he will NEVER change. Do you want that to be your wakeup call 5 years down the road? I think not. Don’t waste your time on a guy who does such things. There is definitely someone much better for you out there.
Another huge sign is that he’ll cancel plans on you last minute or even stands you up. He may just entirely blow you off or even shows up late. If you were really worth it in his eyes or was someone he was actually interested in, he wouldn’t do that to you. These things show that he does not respect you and don’t care if you are even in his life or not. Honey, just move on and let this guy go. There are other guys who will actually cherish you and be thankful that you are in their life.
If he is never available on the classic date nights aka the weekends or special occasions, you are not that important to him. He is keeping things open just in case someone better comes along, then its goodbye you. So if your man is constantly doing this, keep it in mind he’s bound to blow you off as you are just a passing phase or flavor for the moment.
Hey girl….Does your man only want to see you at night? You are just a booty call. Every man can afford to take you out during the day and have normal dates with you and not hook up for a quickie late at night…. This is his way to get his sexual needs met without the commitment of a real boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. You deserve to be taken out properly to movies, restaurants, etc. So ditch this dude and find one that will treat you like how you are to be treated… like a princess.
A guy who is into you and wants to have a future with you will not screen his calls for your number, and would call you back or answer the phone when you call. If he doesn’t return your call that day or never picks up when you call, you’re not high on his priority list. He’s avoiding you most likely and or even still playing the field to see if there is someone better. He’s just a player gal, and you should move on. He’s not worth the time.
If the guy you are seeing is still hooking up with other women or you even catch him at it, he’s not ready to settle down with you. Even if he still maintains inappropriate contact with exes or even other women friends he’s not ready to invest time in you or ready to have any kind of future. He’s just not worth the time if he’s out looking for someone else. Save yourself the heartache and move on…. You’ll find someone who will be so thankful for you.
If your guy disappears for days, weeks or months at a time, do yourself a favor and give him the boot once and for all and don’t look back. Don’t let yourself think that he is investing time in the relationship and even cares about you. He doesn’t. If he did, he would spend every chance he could with you. If your man does this, it’s a sure sign that he is seeing other people and not ready to commit to one person.
If you recognize any of the above signs in the man your dating, it’s time to move on. Like the saying goes, actions speak louder than words. Pay attention to what he’s doing as well as what he’s saying. If he doesn’t put any effort in your relationship it’s time to move on. Make sure you are giving your time to someone who is worth the investment because we cannot get back lost time. When it comes down to it, you want to find a man that treats you right and wants to spend quality time with you. If you settle for anything less, you’re selling yourself short on what you deserve.