Philosophy Of Finding Love!!

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There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of
embarassing the other person, on ourselves we hesitate to say the actual words

So we tend to communicate the idea in other words. We say take care, be good, dont drive
so fast, etc. But really those are just the other ways to say “I love you”, you are important to
me, I care for you, i dont want to get you hurt. We are sometimes very strange people, the only
thing we should say or we want to say is the one thing we dont say. And yet the feeling is so real
and the need to say is so strong, that we are driven to use different words and signs to communicate
what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the
other person is left unloved and unwanted.

Thus we have to listen for love in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes these words
are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying this is more important.
A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments which are expressed insincerely.
An impulsive hug says “I love you” even though the words might be saying differnt.

The problem in love is that we do not understand the language of love which the other person is using.
A girl may use tears and emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not
understand her language.

We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently then we will discover that we
are a lot more loved than we realise.



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