One day you’re going to have your children who talks back to you using foul language. What are you going to do about it? I have talked backt to my parents before and I’m an adult. Parents somtimes cross the line too and you can’t help it but really let them know that you don’t want them to talk to you about that particular issue anymore. The only way to get it across them is by talking loudly or disrespectfully to get their attention.
Who would want to treat their parents like that but what can you do in some case. Some parents just don’t learn when enough is enough. Parents will always want to smother their children. They want to tell their children from a to z. My mom tells me what to eat, what to do, what to wear, what job to do and what time to sleep when I’m 28 years old. Do you think my mom needs to do this? I’m 28 years old. I’ve been through it all in life. I don’t need my mom to keep treating me like a baby. This really irritates me and so I would get angry and yell back over her excessive controlness.
Children are the same way as an adult like me. They can only take so much and there’re things that they don’t want to hear from their parents. The things that you tell them may be good for them but they’re sick and tire of hearing it and they don’t want to keep hearing it. Children have personality and tolerance too. Some children will not be able to tolerate everything that you’re trying to get across with them. If you can just try to delete some of your lectures so that they don’t get irritate all the time. I know it’s one of parent’s favorite thing and that is to lecture to their kids. Guess what though they hate lectures. I used to be a kid and so are you. Did you like your parent keep lecturing and nagging on the same thing over and over again like eat that brocoli or stop talking to Katy because you’re not old enough to have a girlfriend. Children don’t like nagging either. Nobody does.
If you don’t want your children to talk back to you, you just need to be considerate on what you say to them. It’s a chain reaction. It takes two to tangles. You have to tone it down with your children and be patience with them. You can also tell them that you don’t like foul language and that you’ll punish them by taking TV privilege away. It can be that simple. No allowance for a month if they keep using foul language. You can reward them for not using foul language like ice cream and starbucks drink for good behavior.