IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT ROMANCE
Apart from the candy and candlelight dinners, Valentine’s Day is about the realities of love. Where your relationship stands. What can be done to improve it. Valentine’s Day is a perfect time to merge reality with romance.
IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT GIFTS
It is alright to exchange gifts but have you delivered the ultimate gift to your partner yet? Your heart is the ultimate gift. Are you in it for the long haul or it is another time wasted in the name of love? Enjoy your Valentine ’s Day from the perspective of enjoying what the both of you bring to the table.
IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT THE PRESENT
Valentine stood for the present and future of love. You cannot separate one from the other. It is great to live in the present but what next? Do you have plans for your relationship? Plans to move things forward on several fronts?
IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT LOVE
Surprising as it may seem, Valentine’s Day is about life in tangent to love. The saint was beheaded because he could not stand the fact that the Emperor had abolished marriages in the Roman Empire, in order to use the young men in war. What are you doing with your life to ensure the stability of your love life? Are you faithful or not? Are you principled enough to keep the flames of this love burning?
IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU
As you sit face to face on that beautiful terrace or dinner table, realize that your love affair depends on the willingness of two people to become one strong unit. Valentine’s Day is a good place to start realigning your love life to reflect the expectations of two people, not one.