KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
You and only you have the picture of your ideal wife. Remember to put character over countenance if you’re going to make a great choice. As Proverbs said in Chapter 31, ‘charm is fleeting and beauty is vain, but a woman ho fears God is to be praised.’ You can get a worthy woman to become your wife if you truly know what you want in her and from her.
DESPERATION IS A NO NO
You cannot go spouse-hunting in the spirit of desperation. It’s the biggest mistake you can make with your life. Trust me, your spousal choice can make or break your life. So choose from a position of level-headedness.
People have lost opportunities of a lifetime because they did not know whether they were ready or not. Such people know what they want in a woman. However, they send the wrong signals and lose them eventually. Don’t sabotage your own success.
USE YOUR NETWORKS
Friends and family are wonderful channels to meet people. There is one caution, though. You cannot go all out on a relationship just because a respected family member or friend recommended the woman. It is your responsibility to assess her and to ascertain whether she is the right fit or not.
TAKE HER OR LEAVE HER
For goodness’ sake, don’t leave a woman hanging. If you love her, get serious. If not, let her go. It is a travesty against good sense to keep a line of women waiting because of your indecision. Be respectful to the course of other people’s lives.