NAME YOUR WORTH
I love this proverb: if you don’t stand for anything, you’ll fall for everything. A look can lure. A word can woo. But your line of defense is what you want in a man. If it is not there, please let the man move on.
WHAT’S IN IT FOR YOU?
Is it all about him or about you and him? Is it an exchange you are conducting? Your beauty for his money? Goodness, there is more to life than that. If you want something special, you’ve got to work for it or with it. You are too expensive to be in a barter that has nothing to do with your eventual happiness.
KNOW THE MAN
Men are different from each other. You have to know who you are dealing with. The best places to look are who his God is, who his friends are and what his life evolves around. If you know the man and know what you want, it is easy to make a decision. Beware of the man who gives you reasons to be suspicious. The odds are he is suspicious.
LOVE IS BASED ON MANY FACTORS
Looks, height and economic status are relevant to you. However, you must make you decisions with the long term in mind. I always recommend this to female friends: when you see passion, potential, perseverance, prudence and productivity in a man, you are not too far from a keeper.
Women lose men who love them because of their indecisiveness. It is important to take you time to locate Mr. Right. For the good is the enemy of the better and the better is the enemy of the best. Mr. Right should be the best choice, not just a good one.