DO NOT AVOID THE PROBLEM
You have to face problems headlong. Dealing with them as soon as they occur prevents a possible escalation. You should never allow problems to mushroom on you. You cannot develop an ostrich approach to human issues. Ostriches have the tendency of sticking their heads in the sand when there is trouble. They think that if they do not see the problem, it means it does not exist.
DO NOT INFLAME THE PROBLEM
Please do not bring a gas cylinder to a raging fire. Be a solution or bring a solution to the problem. Understand what caused the problem and deal with it. Never use accusatory techniques to solve a problem. You never know the full story.
DO NOT POSTPONE THE PROBLEM
To identify a problem and then postponing its solution is as bad as not knowing about it at all. When a problem arises in the house, spontaneity is needed. This makes the smooth running of your household. When children grow in a household where solutions are given to problems, they get confident.
DO NOT PASS ON THE PROBLEM TO ANOTHER PERSON
If you are the man of the house, do not pass a problem requiring the presence of a man to your wife. That is dereliction of duty as a father and husband. If a problem falls within your role in the family, solve it.
DO NOT BECOME THE PROBLEM
You can become a nightmare to your loved ones through your temper, nagging, impatience and insolence. Learn to be considerate to everyone in your house. Everyone deserves to be happy in your house. Don’t be the killjoy.