The first step in keeping peace in the home is to live your life with decentsy and order. I know this sounds a bit basic, however, if you live a chaotic lifestyle you will reap a chaos filled home. Finances, relationships, and moods will be all over the charts. Learn to reign in your life around peace and make wise desicions, not only for yourself but for those you love.
Next lesson to be heard in keeping the peace throughout homes is to keep your mouth shut sometimes. That sounds a bit harsh to put it out there so bluntly, but truely understand that not everyone around you wants to hear your “opinions”. Your thoughts and input are important to those you love. Be careful not to abuse this right though, if your always going off about something or your opinion on a matter…it will get to the point when those around you will not care so much for what you have to say because your always saying ….”something.” Are you starting to get the point? Now lets move on to another phase in keeping the peace.
Keeping the peace in your home can start with the atmosphere. Create an atmosphere that is enjoyable. Atmopshere improvement can be as simple as lighting a few candles to painting the color of your walls a more inviting shade than the blah white that was there when you moved in. These above tips are only a few suggestions in keeping the peace. Overall, you have to keep yourself in check daily and take an honest look at yourself and make sure your attitude and outlook is positive. Your mind responds more to the power of your own voice than any other and so do others around you, it is very important you set a good example for those you love.
And finally one last thing that can help you keep the peace is to have boundaries established in your homes. Boundaries create stability, discipline, and an order that almost produces a peace on it’s own and then it is up to you to carry it through to every day living.