Self Love is not about conceit. It is coming to grips with the fact that you are comfortable about the way you feel about yourself and that is positive. In order to reach others you have to have been able to reach yourself and where you are at emotionally. It is a good place to be and have reached a mental plateau so to speak that is right for you. You have dealt with your own issues and conquered them on your own, it is a good feeling to reach that pinnacle in life. Some people never reach that place and if you can’t relate to yourself emotionally no one else will be able to either. It all stems from your attitude and approach to life. If you are always positive in the midst of adversity, chances are you will be able to reign victoriously and come out on top of the situation. Empower yourself to be able to deal with your own issues and all other things will fall into place in a sequence of what is the most important.
Channel yourself into the right direction to be able to cope with everyday things that crop up that are not necessarily wonderful all the time but make things more on an even keel for you. Making your life liveable. Emotional happiness is a place you have to reach yourself. The little things in life that cause suffering, you have learned to fluff off and forage forward. Never go back because old issues can bring you back to unhappiness if not digested and left behind. It is the processing of the eliminating of the negative that makes your life one of contentment.