He’s just not that into you.
A few days ago, I watched a movie. I learn something from every movie I watch, but what Iearned from this movie may have been the most important thing I will ever learn from any movie. I learned that men are simple. Women are complicated. When a man says he’s not into you, he just isn’t. There is no what if or maybe. There isn’t even confusion. When a man is not interested, you are simply not worth the second date, or the call to schedule one. This is the rule. When a man does not call, he’s just not that into you. However, there are exceptions. Although these do not happen often, there are few lucky ones. These are the ladies who do get their happily ever after through a once-in-a-lifetime miracle. It is a kind of miracle that makes the simple boy turn into a complicated man. These changes of character only happen once. And once they are changed, they can never go back. This complication is called falling in love. Of course, women experience it all the time since they were complicated from the moment they are born. But it really makes one question why women were born with the complexity and men weren’t. Perhaps that is the reason behind men’s inability to commit, always needing contingent plans, in case something goes wrong. What’s worse is knowing that he is simple because you werent special enough to complicate him and ultimately, he’s just not that into you. But perhaps what’s worst of all is knowing that he’s already complicated and that he wasn’t changed by you. In fact, he was changed by the girl that calls late at night who still has a place in his heart. You know deep down that he’s still not over her.
Maybe what people say is really true. Everyone only has one true soul mate. And that’s the person who changes you from simple to complex. I guess that’s why women have more soul mates than men because once they’re changed, they can never be changed again. Whereas girls do the changing. And the true epic love story happens when a man changes a complex girl into a simple girl. That’s when the true magic occurs. When the girl stops worrying about all the complicated messes and focuses only on her man, loving him with all her heart. As they say, love can be simple.