Step 1“Love yourself”
The first step to a better life or finding yourself is to first accept who you are. You can only accept who you are by loving yourself. If you do not love yourself, then you cannot see your strength and the many great things you are worthy of doing. When you love yourself first there is no barrier or stumbling block that can hinder to of any accomplishments.
When you accept yourself for who you are, you have more confidence, and you are better able to succeed. Your self-esteem is high, you think a positive manner, and you will be able to love others, and in return people will love and respect you.
We are all born with things that we hate about ourselves, no matter how perfect we think we look. You have to embrace who you are and accept things you hate, because sometimes the imperfections you hate about yourself, others adore them, so you were born with a not so nice looking nose, so what. Embrace your big, not so straight nose and move, as that nose is what makes you unique.
“Know your Talent/Gift”Everyone was born with a talent, and most of us do not succeed, because we are not using our talent that was give to us. Figure out your talent, and work on what you do best. If you do what you like you will have more fun, energy and zeal to achieve a goal. If you are doing something that you are not good at or hate, you will never succeed, as you will always be complaining.
“Dream Big”There is a big difference between dreaming big and being a daydreamer. When you dream big, you want that dream and you reach for that dream. You plan and you remain focus on your plans, and you never give up no matter what. Daydreamer sits around and wishes so do not be a daydreamer, work hard for what you want, and do let anyone tell you, “you can’t. When all the doors are shut, do not give up, try the windows. There is always a window for opportunity.Remember when you hit rock bottom, the only way you can go is “up”. Get up put the entire negative behind you and press forward; telling yourself that you are a “victor not a victim” Let this be your daily reminder. “I am a victor, not a victim”.
“Positive environment”“Show me your company and I will tell you who you are”, this is an old saying. Most time for us to succeed all we need a change of scenery. Something things happen in our lives and this is a sign to say get out and go something. Remember that everything in life happens for a reason. Chose your friends wisely, because they can make you are break you. If you surround yourself with negative people who are constantly telling you ‘it will never work”, find new friends. Sooner or later we will soon start believing in those words. You need people whoa re going to be encouraged and support. It is better to try and fail than to never try all.
“Never settle”Most people are in an unhappy relationship or job, because they chose to settle. NEVER settle for good enough, always want more. Do stay in a marriage, relation or your job; because it is good enough, there is more out here. If your relationship is abusive in any way, do not stay in there. Because you think no one else will accept you for who you are. Do not stay in a job, because you are earning enough to be happening. No! Never settle, there is always more out there for you to do. When you settle you limit yourself.Reach for the sky it is the limit, and never says this is “good enough” You are wasting your talent and your life. Also way strive for better, do not become dormant, success is always searching for you, but if your stop looking it will never find you. There is a difference between “good enough” and “greed”. I am not saying you are to be greedy I am not telling you to settle for “good enough”