Questions to Ask Before Ending a Relationship

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Are you seriously considering ending a relationship? Are you confused and don’t know which way to turn? Do you wonder if you’re actually doing the right thing by breaking up or if there really is hope to salvage the relationship? Well, I hear you. Breaking up can be a difficult decision to make. The good news is that there are questions to ask before ending a relationship. Questions that will help you decide whether you’re doing the right thing or not. Let’s begin.

Does your significant other act different or seem to be less interested in spending time with you or you with them?  A lot of times you may feel like you want to break it off because they are acting different, but sometimes this can be easily solved by having a heart-to-heart.  By discussing your feelings and working toward a resolution, you may find that breaking up isn’t as attractive as an option as staying together.

Have you noticed signs that your partner is cheating? If there are signs that your significant other is cheating on you, it may be time to verify this. Once you do, you will be able to determine if your relationship is worth salvaging or not. If you find that you can’t forgive them for their cheating, you should definitely move on. If however you are willing to give them another chance, you should stick it out and make it work.

Are you tempted to cheat on your partner? If you’re tempted to cheat on your mate, there’s a good chance that you are ready to move on. However, it could also mean that you want to give the relationship a bit more time. Either way, you have to ask yourself why you are tempted to cheat and if there is anything you can do to stop the urge and reconnect with your mate.

Have you lost feelings for your mate?  Sometimes when you start dating someone, the passion is high and you feel all gobbilty goopy in love. However, once you get to know the other person, this high feeling seems to fade away.  The important thing to note is that this doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed. It simply means that you’ve reached a comfort level and real love can now set in. However, if you find that the passion has gone, it may be time to rekindle it. Although you don’t have to feel totally in love all the time, you should have some passion.  Simply figure out if the relationship is worth rekindling or has faded away for good.

Is the relationship going anywhere? Sit down and really think about what you want your life to be like in 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 years.  Do you see yourself with your current partner or someone else? If you can’t possibly see yourself with your current mate, it may in fact be time to end the relationship.  If however, you could possibly see yourself with this person, there is hope for your relationship.

What have you done wrong? Sit down and think about what you’ve done wrong in the relationship. Although you may blame your mate for some of the problems, you have to take some responsibility for your actions.

In conclusion, if you are really trying to figure out what to do about your mate, you must ask yourself the hard questions. By doing this, you’ll be able to determine if your relationship is worth salvaging or not. If it is, talk to your mate and try and work things out. If it isn’t, it may be time to end it now. Good luck!


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