Do you know what will get you more women than you know what to do with?
It’s something so simple, so obvious, you’ll kick yourself for not thinking of it before.
Ready for it? Here it comes:
Persistence is KEY to getting women.
This is true in all endeavors in life. If you give up early, you will never achieve your goals.
But before I go any further, I’d like to make the distinction between persistence & being a stalker. Stalking a girl is never a lovely idea, not because it’s creepy anti-social behavior, but because it means you do not have an active life.
This is especially true when it comes to women.
Plenty of men make the mistake of not chasing after a woman, either through laziness, or ego, or what have you.
It’s important to have other stuff you’re passionate about other than women. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pursue them a bit.
The fact is, in today’s world, women still need to be pursued by guys.
Seriously, the whole notion of girls asking guys out has never caught on & was never popular to begin with.
However, most men know that it stinks getting turned down & some fall in to the trap of waiting for the girl to call & suggest a meet.
Don’t be that guy.
There’s still that ol’ status quo in place because I think women realized how crappy it can be to ask someone out & get turned down, so it’s back to the “old” way of doing things.
Be the guy who takes the time to call a girl when you feel like talking to her. Ask her to meet you for drinks or some other activity. Talk on the phone & see what’s going on with her.
Women are busy people in this day & age if you don’t stay in their life in someway, you’ll get pushed aside & forgotten.
Don’t get caught up in phone games. If you need to call her, call her. Leave a message. Keep at it, not intensely, but to stay on her radar. Drop an email, talk on IM, do whatever it takes to become a part of her life.
Even if a girl can’t meet you, keep at them. Call them every couple days until they’re ready to meet.
This kind of gentle persistence, though a bit of work, can pay off in the long run.
& if she doesn’t appreciate it, she’ll let you know.