You can learn ways to improve the quality of your life. Your goal is to have a clean life without too much drama. You should think about things because there’re people that would give birth to a baby when they don’t even work. How would they support the baby and themselves? There’re things that are pure drama and you can learn to let it go in your life. Substance abuse is one common problem that keep people from a clean life. There’re some people that become a homeless when they have substance abuse problems. It can be very difficult to start over after being a homeless. You should make it a goal to cut out things that can weigh down your life.
Not too many babies
Children are wonderful if you can afford them but they’re very high cost. They can cost around $1000 a month. You have to pay for a baby sitter, food, clothing, schooling for older kids, health care and diaper. If you have five kids, you need around $3000-$5000 a month to cover all of the expenses. Children is a long term responsibility. You have to make sure that you can handle them.
If you’re in a bad relationship, you should make plan to move on. It’s better to be single than to be in abusive relationship. They can drag you down in life. You don’t need the headache. You can find someone better for yourself. There’re good apples and then there’re bad apples. You should make room for the good apple.
If your friends continue to bother you, it’s time to give them up. There’re friends that will take advantage of you or give you headaches. It’s time to let them go and find new friends. I’ve given up on many friends because they weren’t that great. Just because you have a friend, it doesn’t mean that they’re healthy for you.
If you don’t have a job then it’s time to get a job. A job can be a source of income that you’ll need to pay your daily bills. If you have someone who cares for you, you can still get a job so you can get an additional income. A career can help you become financially independent.
Alcohol and other things are costly. It makes you tire and it’s unhealthy. You might run into trouble with the law too. You might not feel like working either. You might not pass a job drug test. It’s addictive. It’s the number one thing that cause people to lose their job, and their health.